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Originally posted by DR1665
It doesn't matter if the chick is intentionally making a game out of fucking with your head or if she's just one of those who doesn't know what the fuck she wants in life - maybe she feels like she never got that chance to just be a free spirit and prance about like some kind of princess and she freezes up everytime the two of you get to that point where it feels like things could go to that next level - for whatever reason, she lets you get up to that point and then she pulls the plug on you - dropping the subject, walking away, laying on the old guilt trip, etc.. What does this say about you, as a guy? Nothing. You are logical. You are rational. You know what you want and you're going after it. All the signs point to "Yes," but she's still got to think about it, even though she sure as hell enjoyed the ride thus far. In this situation, you need to be perfectly honest with her and tell her how you feel and why you feel that way - you want something, in this case, a relationship, and you've been getting all the right signals that it's possible, but then she freaks out and pulls away. That's a great way to make a man, any man, lose his mind. So you tell her, flat out, I want to be with you. I want to make this work. I'm ready to take the next step, but everytime we get to that point where it feels like something is going to happen, you pull away and it's making me insane. If you want to be with me, now is the time to make your decision. Either we make something happen, or I have to walk. (Using "have to" implies the decision is made for you.) At this point, she's going to either snap out of the fantasy land and you break through this wall of illogical psychosis and onward to happiness and contentment, or she's going to make it all about her in some way - crying, anger, indifference, whatever - then you have your closure. You'll see her true colors and you can get on with your life, a free man. So long as you approach this with sincerity and honesty right from the start, not wanting to instigate an argument or perpetuate the drama, so long as you really make that effort to get to the bottom of the issue as maturely and emphatically as possible, if she denies you in any way, you can simply walk away from her and her antics knowing you've got a hot date with beautiful woman named Karma.
That is so not what Murix would do.
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