Thank you to all who have responded, reading those posts really helped me think about the situation from a different view. I have remained calm and stayed cool about it, not revealing what I did. After work yesterday I went for a long drive, just to think and try to figure this whole mess out. Got home and checked my missed calls, 8 missed-all from her. Oh well, she knows I don't answer the phone when I'm driving cause I don't hear it(so she thinks lol). Not even 5 minutes pass and the phone rings so I answer it. Throughout the entire conversation I never raised my voice or tried to argue, long story short, I told her that I could no longer trust her. She knew I wasn't telling her everything I knew, I kept asking her if there was anything she wanted to talk about and if she was absolutley sure. She just got more bent out of shape and pissed off and kept asking what did she do and who told me lol, and I kept replying"like you don't know?" Called her a whore and she really blew up and I busted out laughing. After knowing what she did and the response I got back from calling her that, was just fucking awesome! She wanted to come get her stuff right then but I told her I didn't want to see her and that I would drop her shit off by her house today sometime. Going to take it when she's not there too. There is NO chance at all of repairing this relationship, it is over. Sad but true. Now for some great news that just came at just the right time!! One of my ex-girlfriends friends(not the latest ex lol) has been texting me on occasion asking what I've been doing and saying how she missed seeing me and how bored she was going to be after work. Hell she even asked me to send her a pic of my car one time and complimented it saying it was sexy and she always loved my car and that I should take a pic standing next to it and send to her. Well I've been holding off temptations left and right of hooking up with her because I had a gf at the time, well guess what? I'm going over there tonight. Probobly drop my ex's shit off on the way over. Nothing, I mean NOTHING is better than make-up sex....with someone else! I hope, can't wait to see what the night brings. I'm supposed to call her when I get off work, going to take her out to dinner