i think the points gotten across fairly well that what happened was just stupid and unfortunate. but having an experience myself (albeit not nearly as bad as the cat's) with your drunk friends, i think you need to reconsider who you value as friends. a friend would never disrespect or permanently damage your property.

basically, one time, ashalee's "friends" were drunk at her place and they IMed me and told me they wanted to fuck me (pretending to be ashalee)...it was no big deal, and i found it kinda funny. but after seeing this, i think your friends are retarded and deserve to be taught a serious life lesson. people like that are what bring the world down. and i hope you're not like them. you said they're constantly in and out of your house. do they not respect YOUR home?? do you not care for privacy in YOUR home? if i want to hang out with my friends i can go to a bar, and occasionally i can have people over, or the occasional party. i would never tolerate people constantly going in and out of my house that have no respect for my property. i bet they eat yoru food, drink your alcohol and use up all your household items too. ashalee, i always thought you were cool, and i still think you probably are, but seeing people do this to your cat and the way you describe how you live with your friends, and being that this isn't the only time they disrespected your property, i begin to question your values also.