The tie-rod boots are easy. Just slip them on over the tie-rods and then install the tie rods (inner). Outer ends should already have them in place.
As for the ball joints, I only know of them being a unit with the upper, lower and lower lateral control arms. That is to say that you only replace the ball joints with the arms Maybe someone else could enlighten us both on this one if there is after market actually available and then how to install?

So now at 44 what the hell do I do?