Ok after a trip to a dodge dealer and dealing with the space-whore at the counter I had to find the part numbers for the stuff i need myself. Here is what I have come up with.

Tranny fluid (3qts) - 4874465

diff Safing tabs (2) - 04800059AA


Now i get to go back and try to get the stuff. I couldn't find this info anywhere so here it is.

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