ok well the day has come the tranny is fixed or supposed to be fixed. the shop guy drove it for the past two days and he finally got it do what it has been doing to me for the past year and he says it was a coil. now obviously i don't know anything about transmissions so i am not for sure what he is talking about. but after replacing this coil he drove it for like an hour or more straight on stop and go situations and didn't mess up any and said it is golden. dad is going to check it out and double cehck to make sure running right before we leave with it. thanks to infiniti3 and everyone else that helped me out. just another reason for for me to post here more then dsmtuners.