gil,
k, listen u

Im going to start from the beginning with a pan drain:

Drop the pan.
Let fluid drip out.
Replace Filter.
Replace Gasket.
Put pan back up.
Tighten Bolts.
Add {about} 4qts to start out. The whole tranny is 9.1qts, so we'll start with 4qts because you dont drain 100% with a drain and fill.
After adding, warm the engine up to operating speed.
WITH the car started and foot on the break never letting off shift through each gear:
P 5 seconds
R 5 seconds
N 5 seconds
D 5 seconds
N check fluid

Hope that clears up any misunderstanding.

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