Swear to god i seen a post on here with the part number for the Bolts for the AEM bolts. I have the otherstyle cam gears witht he torx head bolts in them and i wanna upgrade fro the hex style.

Just go match up the bolts at the hardware store. AEM doesnt use grade 8 or anything special.

all the ones i've tried at the hardware store the head of the bolts dont fit in the cut outs in the gears.

If your not willing to put forth any effort to make what you need such as filing the head down the pull your wallet out and contact AEM directly. I doubt you will find them for sale.