1:1 aeromotive is perfect, you don't mix an FMU with the emange, not nessescary, don't expect the ignition timing on the manage to work, so find something like crane's retard control box, or msd dis-2 to run that part. Everything else on the emange should work fine once you get the settings on it right, and spend some time on the driveability aspect of it.
Megasquirt seems to be the number 1 choice, now but I'm determined to make my emange work well on my car.