I've gotten myself in an interesting situation and I figured I'd ask some guys with more experience than myself.

I met this girl, Julia and we messed around for a few weeks and we both liked eachother but it was awkward in person and it just never really got off the ground. Then she went for my cousin (who I basically live with). Obvbiously this was a total backstab on his part, and it really messed me up.

Now I spent last night talking to her best friend Vikky, and we ended up kissing. Ok, so things seemed to be getting better. Now this morning I talk to Julia and she says she wants another chance with me.

What do I do? Vikky isn't completely my type, but she's a good looker and I connected a lot more with her in person. But Julia and I connected on the phone and online, and I thought I really cared for her, and I know she'd be faithful (while I somewhat doubt I could trust Vikky).

What would you do in my position. Damn females.

Originally posted by EclipseSix
What would you do in my position.

Fuck em' both. Unless you want a relationship, then I'd go with the second chick. It'll make the first chick jealous and want you even more. Then you will come to your senses about the whole "relationship" crap, and fuck em' both.

Are you nervous seeing Julia face to face? Why didnt you guys connect in person like you did on the phone and online? Was she nervous?

I was in sorta the same predicament. Didnt work out with the first girl, but I had a plan B, who is generally not my type, but we get along great. Now plan A wants to come back cause she still likes me. I said F-plan A, she had the chance, and I am with plan B still. Plan A is a good girl, but you sooze, you lose as the saying goes.

Plus Julia tried to hook up with your cousin. Dunno if I would get over something like that.

Good luck man!

Yeah supposedly they haven't done anything besides kiss, and yeah its still a lot to get over, but I think its do-able.

But yeah I'm really 50/50 right now, I'm going to talk to girl B(vikky) about it and see what she thinks. If she isn't really interested in a relationship then I might just go for A (julia).

and yeah, she was nervous in person, to me it signalled she didn't like me, but i guess it turns out she really did and was too shy to show it. weird.

Originally posted by WIDECLIPSE

Originally posted by EclipseSix What would you do in my position.

Fuck em' both. Unless you want a relationship, then I'd go with the second chick. It'll make the first chick jealous and want you even more. Then you will come to your senses about the whole "relationship" crap, and fuck em' both.

lol, i concur.

My rule of thumb... if you have to question it.. well.. you already know.

I'll assume you're young so you don't really need to make a decision. Just date them both and see what happens. If one relationship actually gets serious then make a decision. Nothing wrong w/ dating multiple people when you are just getting to know both of them. If you pick one and things don't go well, you will regret it and if the other girl has moved on then you will never know what could of happened w/ her. Good luck.

Originally posted by Dualgen2
I'll assume you're young so you don't really need to make a decision. Just date them both and see what happens. If one relationship actually gets serious then make a decision. Nothing wrong w/ dating multiple people when you are just getting to know both of them. If you pick one and things don't go well, you will regret it and if the other girl has moved on then you will never know what could of happened w/ her. Good luck.

FTW.

If vikky is not your type, and you cant see yourself with her, dont go for it. And definately dont go for the bitch who got with your cousin, she doesnt deserve another chance. Think about it this way, If shes willing to mess around with your cousin a few weeks after you meet, what will stop her from messing around with other guys further along in the relationship?

Originally posted by DarkOne
FTW.

dont be the bitch in the relationship. dont be wanting her back, make her want you back. thats how i get them bitches haha

Originally posted by kelvinb1
dont be the bitch in the relationship. dont be wanting her back, make her want you back. thats how i get them bitches haha

lol that was the advice I was given a week ago, and it worked. Now what, hahaha.

Yeah, I'm 19 so I'm undecided whether I just wanna wing it and see what they're both like for shits and giggles, or if I actually want to try and make it work in the longterm with one of em.

exactly, see how it goes with both, and punch your cousin in the face

preferably donkey punch

Do 'em both in the butt, then do all their friends.

Invite them both over, get them drunk and see where it goes from there...

Originally posted by eclipzGST
Invite them both over, get them drunk and see where it goes from there...

Note 1: punch cuz in the face. Check

Note 2: get them both drunk. One is bi, so this could be fun

Note 3: do em both in the butt.... in due time my friends. lol

I love this site.

Be the "forbidden fruit". Ignore her/both just enuff to make them want you more...

...then follow the notes you already took from the other members here.

Originally posted by 95greenhrcgs
Be the "forbidden fruit". Ignore her/both just enuff to make them want you more... ...then follow the notes you already took from the other members here.

Definitely ignore both of them so they want you more... them rip apart both battle axe wounds. }(

Originally posted by EclipseSix

Originally posted by eclipzGST Invite them both over, get them drunk and see where it goes from there...

Note 1: punch cuz in the face. Check Note 2: get them both drunk. One is bi, so this could be fun Note 3: do em both in the butt.... in due time my friends. lol I love this site.

So which is Bi A or B? You don't have to share this with us if you don't want but follow me here. If girl B Vicki is the bi one (I am assuming this is why you feel you couldn't trust her later, and is the basis for me believing you are trying to get serious way to fast here)then you start off dating her. Then if girl A wants another chance she has to be the third party for a little while. That way you can see if she "deserves" another chance. If they are friends and one is bi, it will not take much to make a you sandwich. Add jealousy to the situation and it will be easy! Now go live the dream and close this deal now dammit.!! Don't forget to report back with pic's. (of THEM, No HEF here)

"and I connected a lot more with her in person"

That's the one you should go for, not the phone bullsheeeet chick

i vote...move on and dont worry about it unless your just wanna tap one of em. dont take the one girl back..thats stupid. if you like the other, see where things are. id personally just move on..no use in getting hung up in the drama.

yea bang em and move on, then they'll want to bang you even more

dude, you're 19, dont waste your time trying to find the one. Have fun, fuck them both, if their moms are hot, hell, fuck them too.

you need to cut your balls off and forget women. your balls are what get you in trouble. you sir, are in trouble.

ok update! I killed two birds with one stone. Fucked Vikky in my cuz's bed. Hope that isn't sick in any way, it just happened to be the only free room in the house.

Vikky is the bi one, and I'm just gonna chill with her for awhile and see where it goes, I'm not expecting it to last, so I'm just gonna have fun while it does.

Everybody is pissed at me but I don't really care right now... fuck em.

Thanks for the advice I'll update ya again when shit changes.

Originally posted by EclipseSix
ok update! I killed two birds with one stone. Fucked Vikky in my cuz's bed. Hope that isn't sick in any way, it just happened to be the only free room in the house. Vikky is the bi one, and I'm just gonna chill with her for awhile and see where it goes, I'm not expecting it to last, so I'm just gonna have fun while it does. Everybody is pissed at me but I don't really care right now... fuck em. Thanks for the advice I'll update ya again when shit changes.

YOU MY BOY BLUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Vids!?! WHERE ARE THE VIDS!?!

You get 'em hoes.

Lol, I didn't realize there were so many "hit it and quit it" mentalities here.

In my opinion, neither girl seems appealing. I'd move on.

i say you poke all 3 of them in the eye, and do both of the girls in the ear.

Originally posted by dsmmyth
Lol, I didn't realize there were so many "hit it and quit it" mentalities here. In my opinion, neither girl seems appealing. I'd move on.

ya alot of "bitter jaded assholes" as dino likes to call it. I don't see why you would let bitches change your whole perception of relationships.. or maybe im the one out of the loop here.

Originally posted by dsmmyth Lol, I didn't realize there were so many "hit it and quit it" mentalities here.

While I'm not a "hit-it-and-quit-it mentality," this post makes me feel like I'm in middle school again.

Just give each girl a note. On that note, write, "Are you interested in being 'more than friends' with me? Check yes or no, please."

Or, better yet, give them each multiple choice letters...

"I would like to be....
A) friends
B) more than friends
C) fuck buddies
D) one night stand
E) LTR"

I mean, you never know...

Originally posted by DR1665

Originally posted by dsmmyth Lol, I didn't realize there were so many "hit it and quit it" mentalities here.

While I'm not a "hit-it-and-quit-it mentality," this post makes me feel like I'm in middle school again. Just give each girl a note. On that note, write, "Are you interested in being 'more than friends' with me? Check yes or no, please." Or, better yet, give them each multiple choice letters... "I would like to be.... A) friends B) more than friends C) fuck buddies D) one night stand E) LTR" I mean, you never know...

lmao. Yeah, I'm really not a hit it and quit it kinda guy, its not something I've done before, every girl I've been with has at least been a few month relationship minus a drunken one night stand or two.

But yeah I'll see where this goes, I pretty much doubt it'll work out but hey I'm ok with it for now.

Originally posted by DR1665

Originally posted by dsmmyth Lol, I didn't realize there were so many "hit it and quit it" mentalities here.

While I'm not a "hit-it-and-quit-it mentality," this post makes me feel like I'm in middle school again. Just give each girl a note. On that note, write, "Are you interested in being 'more than friends' with me? Check yes or no, please." Or, better yet, give them each multiple choice letters... "I would like to be.... A) friends B) more than friends C) fuck buddies D) one night stand E) LTR" I mean, you never know...

Lol, classic.

Also give her the traditional torn out spiral paper with all the edges frayed.