nevermind i got it... when i had the trans done the shop fucked up my axles and stripped that nut thing at the end... i put a new one on (i had to add a washer the threads were messed up) and tightened the hell out of it... and then some.

now i'm all good, for now... i'm thinking i'm gonna need a new axle in the future though.

wheel shake gone (guess i didn't need the new hub/bearing afterall)