well i went out to some places looking for these ngk BKR7e and i called napa,they say they got the NGK 6097 which they swear is the same thing,..so is it or should i just keep looking for ngk bkr7e,any opinions?

you want p/n 6097 which is just the NGK part number for that plug.

like Terry said. the BKR7E is the plug identification code, heatrange, resistor, tip style... all that junk. 6097 is just the stock number so that the guys at the local parts store don't have to search through 50 different part numbers that look almost exactly the same (trust me, I know.)