i used the pins bro.... went down to my local dealer and asked if they have any old harnesses...then after they said they did i ask if i could have some pins..... *just cut em off and spliced/ soliderd the wires.
try finding an old harness ie junk yard , crystler,mitsu.. or M&S recycling..... shouldnt cost ya much... sorry dont know the part # tho..
jake

The ATX God! *LOL*