thats just fucked dude, sorry to hear.

couldnt you go to the body shop and bring your oem parts and yank off whatever you can?

I know about a month ago my friend totalled his accord and we just went to the shop the next day with the stock parts and yanked what we could. His insurance said the car had to have the parts on it, whether they were his aftermarket shit or oem they didnt care so we took anything that wasnt damaged.

Good luck man